I · Foundations
Consent, safety and the first scene
- The Code
- Your first scene
- Safewords and signals
- Aftercare
- Sub drop and top drop
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The Academy
Step-by-step guides for curious women and couples, from the first conversation to rope, impact and power exchange. Every lesson starts with consent and ends with care.
Free guides teach the foundations, in plain language and without explicit images. Members' courses go deeper, with video lessons and a path you can follow week by week.
Calm, thorough and free to read. Each one ends with a short check so you know you've got the essentials.
Scene plans, signal cards and aftercare menus to fill in together and print for the bedside drawer.
For members: rope ties, technique and safety shown slowly, from more than one angle.
Completed guides are remembered on this device. Members will sync progress and earn each level.
How to talk about it, what to try first and how to make sure you both feel safe the whole way through.
Traffic lights, non-verbal signals and how to check in without breaking the mood.
What it is, why it matters and how to build a ritual that fits you both.
Start with Foundations, then follow whatever draws you. Guides marked in gold are live; the rest are being written now.
I · Foundations
II · Communication
III · Restraint
IV · Rope
V · Sensation and impact
VI · Power exchange
VII · The Playroom
Furniture safety, anchor points and room design, taught alongside the Playroom Designer and the Dungeon.
Structured, step-by-step courses with video lessons, worksheets and a check at the end of each module. Included with membership when the members' area opens.
Eight video lessons from choosing rope to your first full tie, with safety at every step.
8 lessons · video and worksheets
A six-week course for couples exploring dominance and submission, from first rules to lasting rituals.
6 weeks · one lesson a week
Hands, paddles and floggers: safe zones, warm-up, intensity and reading your partner.
5 lessons · video and worksheets
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